Planning a wedding is a team effort, and as the groom, you play an important role in making the day go smoothly. While much of the attention may be on the bride, your support and involvement are crucial. Here’s a groom-focused guide to help you plan, prepare, and enjoy your wedding day at The Guild.
1. Know the Schedule
One of the most important things you can do is know the schedule for the day by heart. Don’t rely on your bride or the wedding planner to handle everything. Be aware of when key moments will happen, such as when to arrive at the venue, the ceremony start time, and when photos are scheduled. This ensures you’re prepared and able to answer any questions from the groomsmen or family.
2. Stay Connected with Your Bride
On your wedding day, it’s important to check in with your bride and ensure she’s feeling supported. Compliment her on how beautiful she looks—she’s put a lot of effort into looking her best. Your encouragement will mean the world to her.
3. Prepare Your Groomsmen
Your groomsmen look to you for leadership, so make sure they’re on track. A week before the wedding, ensure they’ve picked up their suits and are clear on their duties. It’s also a good idea to create a simple schedule for them. On the day of the wedding, make sure they arrive on time and are ready to support you.
4. Be Thoughtful with Gifts
A personal touch goes a long way. Consider writing a card to your bride, expressing your gratitude and excitement for the future. You should also write a heartfelt note to your parents, thanking them for their love and support. Small, thoughtful gestures like this can make the day even more special.
5. Keep Calm and Steady
It’s normal to have a few nerves on your wedding day, but keeping a clear head is important. Don’t drink too much before the ceremony—if you’re going to, think 1-2 drinks so you keep your wits about you. Also, consider keeping a few essentials on hand, such as a handkerchief for tears, chapstick, or mints. However, avoid bulky pockets—make sure your phone and wallet aren’t in your front pockets during photos.
6. Stick Together
Throughout the day, make time to eat and ensure your bride does too. Weddings are busy, and it’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of activities. Stay by her side, check in often, and make sure she’s enjoying herself. Your presence will help reduce stress and create a stronger bond as you celebrate your union.
7. Speeches and Tips
If you plan to give a speech at the rehearsal dinner or reception, prepare it in advance. A heartfelt, short speech will go a long way. Also, ensure your vendors are taken care of by arranging tips ahead of time. Delegate this responsibility to a trusted friend or family member to avoid last-minute stress.
8. Secure the Gifts
At the end of the night, ensure the wedding cards and gifts are safe. Consider asking a parent or close friend to take care of these items to avoid any mishaps. You want to end the day knowing everything is secure.
9. After the Wedding
Once the wedding is over, don’t forget to tackle thank-you notes and submit your marriage license. These are small, but important tasks that need to be handled in a timely manner. Being organized will help you close this chapter smoothly and start your marriage off right.
Final Thoughts
Being a groom isn’t just about showing up on the wedding day. Your role in planning and supporting your bride is key to a successful event. With a bit of preparation, attention to detail, and a positive attitude, your wedding day at The Guild will be one of the best days of your life. Enjoy every moment!